Popular Nigerian Nollywood actor, Iyabo Ojo has responded to social critic, VeryDarkMan following his numerous allegations against her, which include accusations of infidelity and accepting bribes.
In an extensive post on Instagram, Iyabo Ojo conveyed her compassion for VDM’s difficult upbringing, which she believes has played a role in his negative behavior.
She pointed out that VDM’s parents did not provide him with a nurturing and stable environment, resulting in unresolved anger and emotional distress.
Iyabo Ojo questioned the parenting choices made by VDM’s mother, expressing concern over why she permitted her child to be self-reliant at such a young age.
Additionally, she criticized VDM’s mother for her reliance on her former husband and her inability to adequately support her children.
The actress encouraged VDM to seek forgiveness from his parents and to pursue inner peace, rather than misdirecting his anger towards innocent individuals.
Iyabo Ojo’s remarks follow VDM’s allegations against her, which include claims that she engaged in a threesome with her daughter and accepted N65 million to advocate for justice for the late singer Mohbad.
She wrote:
“Vincent, I’ve gained a deeper understanding of your behavior, and it’s quite sad. It seems like your upbringing lacked love, care, and stability. Your toxic narcissistic behavior stems from unresolved anger and pain caused by your parents’ failure to provide a nurturing environment.
“Instead of directing your anger toward those responsible, you’ve chosen to attack successful men and women. Listening to your story, it’s clear that you faced a lot of hardships, including stealing food to survive and almost being lynched as a child. Why would your mother let that happen? Mama Vincent, why didn’t you do more to provide stability for your child?
“Vincent, your unresolved trauma has turned you into a manipulative, deceitful, and toxic person who tarnishes reputations for relevance. Your anger is misplaced—your parents are to blame, not Paulo, Mama Festus, Priscilla, or me.
“Your obsession with me shows that my name lives rent-free in your head. If it helps you sleep better, continue. But I urge you to forgive your parents and free your heart from hate. Only then will you find peace.”
