An unidentified Wife has confessed to paternity fraud as she reveals that her 3 kids belong to her ex-boyfriend, despite being married for 7 years to a man who sponsored her education.
The unidentified 33-year-old lady stated that she still deeply loves her ex-boyfriend and sought advice on how to break up with her husband.
According to the woman, she and her husband has been married for 7 years.
During this time, he has been the one sponsoring her education right to her becoming a nurse, sponsoring her brother’s visa and trip to Canada, and in general, elevating her family status.
However, she had reconnected with her ex whom she still loves, and welcomed 3 kids with him, all of whom she pinned on her husband.
She currently seeks to leave the marriage as she is no longer interested in it and doesn’t want to continue staying in it out of pity.
Her words …
“My husband is a good man, but he’s not sweet in bed. It’s been 7yrs. But I don’t think I can continue this marriage anymore. I can’t tell him because I don’t want to his feelings or damage his ego. Actually, a year after our marriage, I reconnected with my ex, whom I dated in secondary school. We didn’t break up; distance separated us, & our relationship eventually soured. We started seeing each other again, this has been going on for 6 yrs.
“Honestly, I only reunited with my ex to satisfy my sexual needs, He’s actually good in bed but later on, I realized I still love him & he truly loves later on, I realized I still love him & he truly loves me too. However, leaving my husband is diff*llt & complicated. He’s been kind to me & my family. The thing us, When I met him, I had just lost my dad,. Life was challenging for us. But he helped my family, sponsoring my brother’s visa & trip to Canada, supporting my education, rented comfortable house for my mom, & started a business for her too. Thanks to him, I graduated & became a nurse.Truth is, I once him out Pity. I love my ex so much and he’s the father of our 3 kids & we want to get married. I sincerely know that I’m doing wrong. But i honestly can’t help it. He’s a good man & my conscience is killing me. It’s better i leave so he finds someone that genuinely loves him back.
“But i don’t know how. Pls help me. I need guidance — how do I make my husband understand all of this without hurting him? At 33, I deserve a fulfilling love life, including my —l needs, which is obvious, I’ll never find with my husband. Pls i just don’t want to stay in marriage out of pity” – she confessed.
